New styles and trends in party and event-planning deserve your attention. If you’re getting engaged, enjoy more of your pre-wedding bliss by hiring a planner. For many years, friends and family hosted the engagement party. Today’s fashion isn’t rigid. “Think of family and close friends. Those who are to be part of the wedding: this should be an intimate affair,” says Lucia M-I Cordone, CWP/CEP, Owner of Guiding Star Events, LLP. “You probably won’t have more than 50 people.”
For an engagement party at home, Cordone personalizes a planning checklist geared to event success by:
Establishing a budget: an appetizers/cocktail party may run about $25/person, or $750 guesstimate for 30
Pricing/retaining the caterer and bartender: according to your budget
Envisioning, deciding party flow: will guests sit at tables? will they “sit anywhere”?
Choosing patterns, colors, flowers, music: Modern fashion includes selecting an engagement party theme. Clients love wedding jewelry-themes. A Sound of Music theme could include edelweiss flowers, Swiss chocolates and native cheeses. If you’re planning a wedding on your boat, nautical maps and charts, along with a beach décor, announce the captain found her first mate.
Creating party favors: If planning a beach wedding, for example, Cordone suggests “sunglasses engraved with wedding date, or a pair of personalized flip flops (with tag reminder ‘bring these to the wedding, use…on the dance floor!)”
Showing convergence of separate paths: “I love photo montages and videos for this reason,” says Cordone. She works with the videographer and/or photographer to capture the bride and groom’s separate journeys to show “the beginning of life’s journey together.”
Plan your party with new styles that attract you, or work with designers to translate your idea of the perfect party. You only get married to the love of your life once!

